Your boyfriend is not your friend. Slowly over time, as I’ve aged from a 22-year-old deer-in-headlights to an actual adult, I’ve started to understand what my therapist meant.

Maybe it's not love that's keeping him by your side. Your boyfriend might be with you just for what you can offer him. Pay attention to these signs.

Not your boyfriend. Right now, these things may feel like noble sacrifices on the altar of you and your boyfriend's shared future, but that future life? That's also a hypothetical.

“If your partner doesn’t say very clearly ‘I love you’ by 12 weeks, then he’s not your ideal partner and you’ve wasted your time,” the expert bluntly declared.

Perhaps your boyfriend is not very forthright about his past relationships or maybe there are aspects of his past you are curious about. You may want to be friends with his ex in order to snoop.

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Your boyfriend appears to have a clear sense of boundaries and work-life balance. He completes his responsibilities efficiently and then allows himself to rest without guilt.