Every type can also have two "wings," which are simply traits from the two personality types adjacent to yours on the Enneagram. So a type 9 might have a type 1 or type 8 wing.

Your Enneagram type says a lot about not only how you behave in relationships, but also why you act that way. Conversely, your love language says a lot about what you need in your relationships.

Here are the 9 personality types of the Enneagram and how the associated traits that arise from fear might attract toxic relationships into your life: 1. Enneagram type 1: The Perfectionist ...

These three Enneagram types are likely to date with ease. Courtesy of Kylah Benes-Trapp. Type Two: "The Giver/Helper" The Helper or Giver wants to love and be loved.